Category Archives: Friar Reflections

A regular reflection from one of our Franciscan Friars on the day’s readings, the happenings around the parish, or discussing parochial outreach initiatives.

Generosity is an Act of Trust | Friar Reflections | Thirty-Second Sunday in Ordinary Time

My Good Friends,

This Sunday, our readings present us with profound lessons on true generosity and faith. At the heart of Mark’s Gospel, we encounter the story of the poor widow who gave two small coins as her offering at the temple. Jesus observes her act and points out to His disciples that she, in her poverty, has given more than all the others who contributed from their surplus wealth. This moment provides a powerful lesson: true generosity is measured not by the size of the gift, but by the heart and sacrifice behind it.

In our first reading from 1 Kings, we find a similar act of sacrificial giving. The prophet Elijah encounters a widow in Zarephath who, despite being on the brink of starvation with her son, offers him the last of her food. Her faith and willingness to give, even when she had so little, leads to God’s miraculous provision. This story echoes the Gospel’s theme: God values the selflessness and trust of those who give from their very need.

What then are the lessons we can take from these readings?

  • Generosity is an Act of Trust: Both widows in the readings give everything they have. Their acts are not just about charity; they are acts of profound trust in God. The widow in the Gospel might have worried about how she would survive after giving away her last coins, but she trusted that God would provide. This invites us to reflect: do we trust God enough to give not only from our abundance but even when it requires sacrifice?
  • Quality over Quantity: Society often measures the worth of a gift by its size or monetary value, but Jesus challenges this view. The wealthy donors in the Gospel gave large sums, but Jesus singled out the widow as her gift was all she had. God sees beyond appearances and values the love, faith, and sacrifice that accompany our offerings.
  • A Call to Examine Our Priorities: The Gospel begins with a warning against the scribes who seek honor and recognition while neglecting true compassion and service. This is a reminder for us to examine our motives. Are we seeking acknowledgment for our acts of kindness, or are we giving out of genuine love for God and neighbor? True discipleship calls us to humility and self-giving without seeking praise.

How do we apply these lessons in our lives? We are called to live out the Gospel by embracing a spirit of generosity and trust. This does not only mean financial giving; it means giving our time, energy, love, and service to others, especially those in need. True generosity may be as simple as offering a listening ear, a helping hand, or being present for someone who feels alone. It is in these acts, given from the heart, that we embody Christ’s teachings.

We can draw inspiration from these two widows who, in their poverty, showed extraordinary faith and love. We too, strive to give from the depths of our hearts, trusting that God sees and cherishes every act of selfless love. As we approach the altar, ask for grace to be generous —giving not only when it’s easy, but especially when it requires faith. Giving is not just about what you could spare—it’s more about what you were willing to share, no matter the cost.

– Fr. Zack

How We Might Remember | From the Desk of the Pastor | November 2024

Dear Parishioners,

This Saturday, November 2, we celebrate the Solemnity of All the Faithful Departed, more commonly known as All Souls’ Day. This month is often seen as a time to remember all of our loved ones. I’d like to remind you that this year, Remembrance Cards will be available to you, where you can write down the names of your departed loved ones and we will remember each of them at every Ordinary Time Mass throughout November. Many have already filled out the cards, causing us to run out last weekend. You can be sure that we will keep a supply in reserve as the month continues. Cards can be found near our Book of Intentions in the back of the church. Simply place the completed cards in the adjacent basket, and the friars will collect them.

A poem that I often read during near All Souls’ Day is called We Remember Them; a litany by Rabbis Sylvan Kamens and Jack Riemer. This poem reminds us of how the memories of our loved ones who have died, even if significant time has passed since their death, will be seen in smallest or most repetitive aspects of our own lives. The first time I heard this poem was at a remembrance celebration in 1999 at a local Hospice facility in Maryland. In the time since, I have revisited this litanty countless time for All Souls’ celebrations.


At the rising of the sun and at its going down,
We remember them.
At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of Winter,
We remember them.
At the opening of buds and in the rebirth of Spring,
We remember them.
At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of Summer,
We remember them.
At the rustling of leaves and the beauty of Autumn,
We remember them.
At the beginning of the year and when it ends,
We remember them.
As long as we live, they too will live; for they are now a part of us,
as we remember them.
When we are weary and in need of strength,
We remember them.
When we are lost and sick at heart,
We remember them.
When we have joys we yearn to share,
We remember them.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make,
We remember them
When we have achievements that are based on theirs,
We remember them.


Some of you know that I am a bit of a baker. At that that Hospice remembrance service, one of the volunteers made these graham cracker dessert for those in attendance to share. They were absolutely delicious, and stick out in my mind whenever I think to that poem and service. It took me a while but I tracked down the woman who made them and she gave me the recipe, which I will share with you.


Graham Cracker Treats

Ingredients:
1 cup – Butter
½ cup – Sugar
1 cup – Chopped Pecans
12 large Graham Crackers

Directions:
• Put graham crackers on a foiled cookie tray and sprinkle with pecans.
• In a saucepan, melt sugar and butter over medium heat and let boil for 2 minutes. When finished, pour over crackers and pecans.
• Bake in oven at 350*F for 10 minutes.


One of the best ways we remember loved ones is when we share what they had given us in life. Ahead of the holidays, let us share their stories and the gifts they have given us with others. As they have lived in us, may they now also live in others. For example, my great, great aunt Sarah died when I was a toddler. She was about 107. I don’t remember her, but I am connected to her through the warm stories my dad and grandmother would tell about her.

Take the time in November to pray for all those who have gone before us, as we remember them.

Peace and All Good,
– Fr. Mike

Christ’s Baptism of Solidarity | Friar Reflections | Twenty-Ninth Sunday in Ordinary Time 

Saints of God, the Lord be with you!

Scripture scholars use the criterion of embarrassment as one of their tools to help them uncover the historicity of a particular scripture passage. Many scripture scholars also advocate that the Gospel according to Mark is the earliest gospel text written. In today’s Gospel (Mark 10:35-45), Jesus, for the third time, has told the disciples that He is soon to be handed over, mocked, scourged, and condemned to death. Rather than offer Him support, the brothers James and John basically ignore all that Jesus has just said, and, to put it bluntly, ask, “What does that have to do with us? Give us what we want.” Talk about throwing a bad light on the disciples! But don’t worry, Matthew (20:20-28) cleans this up and has their mother do the demanding. Jesus asks them, “Can you drink the cup that I drink, and with the baptism with which I am baptized, you will be baptized.” To which they respond (probably without any reflection), “We can!”

Whenever we go to communion, we should remember that our reception of the Body and Blood of Christ (even if it is only the Eucharistic Bread) is a “re-dipping” into the waters of baptism. The baptism of Jesus of Nazareth was no washing away of sin, since Jesus was and is sinless. Rather, Christ’s baptism was a baptism of solidarity with sinners: the poor and hungry, the religiously disposed, and the politically powerless. This is the cup that Jesus asks James and John if they can drink from. And this is a question we must ask ourselves as we enter the communion line: Am I willing to live my baptism of solidarity with those who are different from me? Baptism is communion…and communion is a living out of our baptism.

Of course we all want to know, “what’s in it for me?’ I suppose the answer is, in the end, eternal life. But there’s more…to paraphrase Psalm 29:13, “we shall see the Lord in the land of the living.”

Our heaven will begin for us now, in this life, on this earth. Christ as Servant becomes for us the Way, the Truth, and the Life of us who have faith. Heaven is the result of how we live our life of faith, and it begins now…or it doesn’t begin at all.

– Fr. Steve

Rounding the Obstacles | Friar Reflections | Twenty-Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time

My Good Friends,

Our readings this weekend challenge us to reflect on what we truly value in life. The Gospel from Mark presents the familiar story of the rich young man who seeks eternal life but struggles when Jesus asks him to sell his possessions and follow Him. The man’s sadness at the thought of giving up his wealth speaks to a deeper spiritual truth: it’s not just about material possessions, but about what holds our heart.

In the first reading from Wisdom (7:7-11), we hear Solomon’s prayer for wisdom. He values wisdom above all earthly goods—gold, silver, health, or beauty. He teaches us that the greatest treasure we can seek is not material wealth, but God’s wisdom. This wisdom leads us to a deeper understanding of what truly matters in life and what brings lasting fulfillment.

In the second reading, Hebrews 4:12-13, we are reminded that the Word of God is alive and active, sharper than any two-edged sword. It penetrates our hearts and exposes our innermost thoughts and desires. God’s Word challenges us to see where our priorities lie and helps us discern what is keeping us from fully following Christ.

When Jesus tells the rich young man to sell his possessions, He is not condemning wealth itself, but rather pointing out that it can become an obstacle to following God wholeheartedly. It is a reminder that whatever we are most attached to—whether it’s wealth, status, or comfort—can become a stumbling block in our relationship with God. Jesus invites us to let go of anything that prevents us from living fully for Him.

As we reflect on today’s readings, we are challenged to ask ourselves: What is holding me back from following Christ more closely? What do I treasure more than my relationship with God? Jesus’ words remind us that only when we are willing to surrender our attachments and trust in God’s wisdom will we find the true riches of eternal life.

May we pray for the grace to let go of anything that hinders our relationship with God, and to seek His wisdom as our greatest treasure. Let us trust that by following Jesus, even through sacrifice, we will inherit the eternal life He promises.

– Fr. Zack

What Would He Do? | From the Desk of the Pastor | October 2024

Dear Parishioners,

During the middle of the Civil War, in 1862, one of the Northern leaders asked president Abraham Lincoln for prayer that God would be on their side. Lincoln responded, “Sir, my concern is not whether God is on our side; my greatest concern is to be on God’s side.” How often do we try to make God be on our side, with our own agendas and desires? Instead, our efforts should be in service of trying to be on God’s side, following the Gospel in our own lives.

We’ve all heard and likely used the phrase, “What would Jesus do?” WWJD ask us to apply Jesus’s teaching to our everyday life. When faced with difficult situation how do we respond? Do we respond with our own agenda or do we try to respond to the way God is calling us to? How would Jesus respond to the homeless, the immigrant or other people who may be different because of their faith, race, sexual orientation, or gender? Jesus’ response would be one of compassion and healing. As we get closer to the election I would like to repeat a quote that echoes this sentiment of thinking:

“On these often complex matters, it is the laity’s responsibility to form their consciences and grow in the virtue of prudence to approach the many and varied issues of the day with the mind of Christ. Conscience is “a judgment of reason” by which one determines whether an action is right or wrong (see Catechism of the Catholic Church, no. 1778). It does not allow us to justify doing whatever we want, nor is it a mere “feeling.” Conscience—properly formed according to God’s revelation and the teaching of the Church—is a means by which one listens to God and discerns how to act in accordance with the truth. The truth is something we receive, not something we make. We can only judge using the conscience we have, but our judgments do not make things true.“

St Francis of Assisi would pray “Most high, glorious God, enlighten the darkness of my heart and give me, Lord, a correct faith, a certain hope, a perfect charity, insight and wisdom, so that I may carry out Your holy and true command.”


November, with the feast of All Souls, is a time to remember all of our loved ones. This year, remembrance cards will be available for parishioners, where you may write down the names of your loved ones and we will remember all of the people during the ordinary time Masses throughout the month. Once filled, we simply ask that you place the card in the basket in the back of the church. At weekend Masses, we will bring the basket of cards up with the collection. During the week, we will have the cards on the altar at each Mass. We will also have cards available at the Gift Store. There is no need to e-mail or call the parish office to add your names. We ask that you do it when you come to Mass. We will have the Remembrance Cards available the last week of October. This new, month-long remembrance will take the place of this year’s Candle Lighting Service.

Peace and All Good,
– Fr. Mike

Portions of this text were approved by the body of U.S. bishops in November, 2023, as noted at www.faithfulcitizenship.org. © 2023, United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, Washington DC. All rights reserved.

Who Am I, Anyway? | Friar Reflections | 24th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Saints of God, the Lord be with you!

My favorite Broadway musical of all time is A Chorus Line (I only saw it seven times during its original run). What I most loved about it was its immediacy, I really felt like I was watching an audition NOW, in the present, as the book and lyrics made timely references. I think the newest Broadway revival somewhat failed since neither the book nor the lyrics were updated, thus losing the show’s immediacy and making it a “period piece.” Today’s Gospel according to Mark (8:27-35) could be read in the same light. It’s a period piece since the question of Jesus, “who do people say that I am?” has been answered. Jesus is the Second Person of the Blessed Trinity, the Word of God made flesh, both fully human and fully divine and is the Way, the Truth, and the Life, the Savior of the Universe….I could go on, but you get the point.

Even the more personal question Jesus asks of his disciples, “But who do YOU say that I am?”, has been answered by each of us or none of us, would be here in Church this weekend. What speaks to my heart is that Jesus, while being all of the above and more, is also the Son of Man (one of us) who has suffered, and been rejected. And who of us hasn’t suffered or been rejected? Jesus, His reputation in tatters, His hopes dashed, yet clinging to hope was “crucified, died and was buried”. And for what? Well, back to A Chorus Line and to paraphrase its most popular song: what He did He did for love: love of the Father and love for each one of us.

In its big opening number, the question asked by the character Paul is “Who am I anyway, am I my resume?” The answer to that question is a “resounding, NO!” We are more than our resume, our bank account, our marital status, our gender identity, our sexual orientation; we are the beloved children of God the Father, brothers and sisters of Christ, baptized into the love of the Holy Trinity, so that the life and mission of Jesus Christ might continue through us. We are the ones whom God invites to clothe those with nothing to wear, to give food, to give the necessities of the body (James 2:14-18) to those in need. In other words, we are called to give flesh to our faith. This is the cross that Christ invites us to carry in our daily lives; our charity begins in our homes but shouldn’t end there.

Perhaps this weekend we should ask, “Who does Christ say that I am? Who does Christ say the parish of Sacred Heart is?” May I suggest that our charity towards one another, our visitors, and the homeless men and women at our door speaks volumes of who we are. And why do we do it? We do it out of love.

– Fr. Steve

Honoring Their Work | Friar Reflections | 23rd Sunday In Ordinary Time

My Good Friends,

Coming off Labor Day weekend, from a Catholic perspective, we have an opportunity to reflect on the dignity of work and the rights of workers, particularly the working poor. Rooted in Catholic Social Teaching, the Church emphasizes that work is not just a means of economic production but a vital expression of human dignity. Labor Day invites the faithful to remember that the value of work is not merely in profit or productivity, but in the human person who performs it.

Church teaching, especially in encyclicals like Rerum Novarum (1891) and Laborem Exercens (1981), highlight the need for just working conditions, fair wages, and the right to organize. These principles are particularly significant for the working poor—those who, despite being employed, struggle to meet basic needs due to low wages, inadequate benefits, or insecure employment. Labor Day serves as a reminder that the economic system must be aligned with the common good, ensuring that all workers, especially the most vulnerable, are treated with dignity and justice.

This Sunday’s second reading from The Letter of James (2:1-5) offers a reflection on partiality and the treatment of others, which resonates with the spirit of Labor Day. The passage warns against showing favoritism, particularly toward the wealthy, and instead calls for honoring the dignity of every individual, regardless of their social or economic status. On Labor Day, a time dedicated to recognizing the contributions of workers, this scripture reminds us that all laborers deserve respect and fair treatment.

James emphasizes that faith in Christ must be free from discrimination, encouraging us to treat the poor with the same honor as the rich. In the context of Labor Day, this can be seen as a call to ensure that all workers, whether they are in high-paying jobs or minimum-wage positions, are valued equally. It challenges us to reflect on our attitudes toward those in various professions and to advocate for just wages, safe working conditions, and respect for all laborers. By applying the principles in James 2:1-5, we can honor Labor Day not just as a holiday, but as a commitment to upholding the dignity of all workers, ensuring that no one is overlooked or undervalued.

The Catholic concept of the “preferential option for the poor” underscores the importance of prioritizing the needs of the working poor. This principle challenges society to create conditions where workers are not merely surviving but thriving, with access to fair wages, health care, and safe working environments. The Church also calls for solidarity with the working poor, urging individuals and communities to advocate for policies and practices that protect and uplift them.

On Labor Day, as Catholics we are encouraged not only to honor workers but to recommit to the struggle for social justice. This includes advocating for systemic changes that address the root causes of poverty and inequality, ensuring that all workers can live with dignity and security.

– Fr. Zack

Discernment and Voting | From the Desk of the Pastor | September 2024

Dear Parishioners,

Back in May, 1984 my father was running for the local school board. He was initially elected in 1969 and had served on the board ever since. He had instructed the family to vote, of course, and to tell our friends to vote as well.

Election day came and I was running late for work didn’t have the time to go vote. After work, I met up with some friends and one of them asked me if I’d had the chance to vote, and I admitted I hadn’t. She looked at me and said “you haven’t heard? Your dad’s race ended in a tie.”

They had to have a special election in June. I didn’t miss heading to this polls on this day, however, my father lost that election. The next year, he regained his seat on the board, and would serve for another 17 years, until 2001/2002, a total of 32 years.

While we are well into election season, I would make the following recommendations. Mind you, these are not my thoughts for any specific race or issue, but ways to consciously and deliberately discern your own choices:

1. Bring your discernment to prayer. | St. Paul says: Put on “the mind of Christ” (1 Cor. 2:16). Take time away from social media and spend time with Holy Scripture and the Blessed Sacrament. Turn off the TV or the podcast, and listen in silence. Volunteer at a soup kitchen, a homeless shelter, a crisis pregnancy center. Serve the poor, the needy, the outcast. Pray often, letting faith inform your political participation. Participation in political life also requires judgments about concrete circumstances. While the bishops help form the laity in accordance with basic principles, they do not tell the laity to vote for particular candidates.

2. Follow your conscience. | On complex matters, it is the laity’s responsibility to form their consciences and grow in the virtue of prudence to approach the many and varied issues of the day with the mind of Christ. Conscience is “a judgment of reason” by which one determines whether an action is right or wrong (Catechism of the Catholic Church, no. 1778). It does not allow us to justify doing whatever we want, nor is it a mere “feeling.” Conscience—properly formed according to God’s revelation and the teaching of the Church—is a means by which one listens to God and discerns how to act in accordance with the truth. The truth is something we receive, not something we make. We can only judge using the conscience we have, but our judgments do not make things true.

3. Be respectful of others. | We do not all share the same opinions. Let us be respectful of other people’s opinions in our words and actions. Never let evil talk pass your lips; say only the good things men need to hear, things that will really help them. Do nothing that will sadden the Holy Spirit with whom you were sealed against the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, all passion and anger, harsh words, slander, and malice of every kind. In place of these, be kind to one another, compassionate, and mutually forgiving, just as God has forgiven you in Christ (Eph. 4:29-32).

4. Vote.

Peace and All Good,
– Fr. Mike

Portions of this text were approved by the body of U.S. bishops in November, 2023, as noted at www.faithfulcitizenship.org. © 2023, United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, Washington DC. All rights reserved.

Watch What You Eat | Friar Reflections | Twentieth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Saints of God, the Lord be with you!

All three readings this weekend make mention of food and wine, so it might be good to reflect on all those things that we take into our bodies that may or may not nourish us.

In the Book of Proverbs (9:1-6), the author imagines Wisdom setting a feasting table not for the wise, but the simple. It’s not so much that the wise are not invited, it’s that more than likely, they will not respond to the invitation to feast on all the God’s Wisdom has prepared. To those who are humble enough and willing to feast, Wisdom invites them to “forsake foolishness…and advance in the way of understanding.”

Perhaps what we need to come to understand is that God’s ways are not always our ways (…and to some, this is not Good News).

In Saint Paul’s Letter to the Ephesians (5:15-20), he warns us in not overindulging in wine (or any other beverage or substance) that might get us intoxicated and lead us to actions not beneficial to ourselves and others. Instead, we are to “be filled with the Spirit, addressing one another in psalms, hymns, and inspired songs.” To be honest, this seems a bit over the top to me. However, Paul does suggest that we “give thanks to the Lord in your hearts.”

Now that, I can do.

Finally, the Gospel according to John (6:51-58) has Jesus saying, “I am the living bread come down from heaven; whoever eats this bread will live forever; and the bread that I will give is my flesh for the life of the world.” How often do we truly feast on Jesus or have we become so complacent that our coming to communion is just a habit with no thought behind it? I say this because many people genuflect to an empty tabernacle after receiving the Eucharistic Bread, the Body of Christ. In a way, we become a living tabernacle, so why the genuflection? When we eat, our food becomes us (my big belly is due to an overabundance of potato chips). With the Eucharist, we are to become the Body of Christ: He whom we have received. His life is now our life, and we are called to take His life into the world. Let us fast from all those things that are detrimental to our life in Christ. Let us feast on Christ, our true life now and into eternity.

– Fr. Steve

On the Road | Friar Reflections | 19th Sunday in Ordinary Time

My Good Friends,

Since returning from my Ignatian Camino back in July, I have been asked by more than a few people if I would share some more of my experience, so others may become aware of what it is to walk a Camino… so here you go…

In a nutshell, embarking on a Camino offers an opportunity for personal reflection and spiritual growth. This ancient practice of journeying on foot toward a sacred destination is rich with lessons and insights. One of the most striking aspects of a Camino is its emphasis on simplicity. Those who participate in any Camino, referred to as pilgrims, carry only what they need, leaving behind unnecessary items which adds weight to their backpacks. This stripping down to essentials allows a sense of freedom and clarity. As we walk, we realize how little we truly need, and this realization brings about a profound shift in our perspective, teaching us to appreciate the basics and to find joy in simplicity.

The physical demands of the Camino mirror the spiritual journey it represents. Long days of walking can be exhausting, and the varied terrain tests your endurance, but these physical challenges are opportunities for growth, teaching resilience and patience. Each step, taken in faith and determination, becomes a metaphor for the spiritual path, where perseverance through difficulties leads to inner strength and awareness of the spirit.

The beauty of the Camino lies in its capacity to reveal the divine in the mundane. The rhythm of walking allows for contemplation and a heightened awareness of one’s surroundings. Nature, your fellow pilgrims, and moments of silence all become channels through which God speaks. This practice of seeing the sacred in everyday experiences fosters a deeper connection with the divine and a more profound sense of gratitude.

The Camino offers a unique blend of community and solitude. Simultaneously, the Camino provides ample time for solitary reflection. These moments of solitude are precious, allowing for introspection, prayer, and a deeper understanding of oneself.

It’s a journey of discernment. The simplicity and routine of the pilgrimage create a space for listening to one’s inner voice and seeking God’s guidance. We set out with questions or uncertainties, and the Camino becomes a time to explore these, seeking clarity and direction. The act of walking itself becomes a prayer, a dialogue with God, and a means of discovering one’s path and a realization of the gift of presence. Each step taken with mindfulness becomes an act of being fully alive in the moment. This presence extends beyond the physical journey, reminding us to live fully and attentively in our everyday lives. The slow pace of walking contrasts sharply with the rush of modern life, inviting us to savor each moment and to be present to ourselves, others, and God.

At the end of the Camino, you do your best to avoid a return to everyday life. The lessons learned, the insights gained, and the spiritual growth experience can, if allowed, continue to shape one’s life long after the pilgrimage ends. Life itself is a journey, a pilgrimage where each step is an opportunity to grow closer to God and to live with greater purpose and love.

So, walking a Camino is a rich and transformative experience that touches the body, mind, and spirit. It offers profound lessons in simplicity, resilience, presence, and community, inviting us to deepen our faith and to embrace the journey of life with renewed vigor and insight. If your are considering a pilgrimage, you might begin by simply walking your neighborhood with a new awareness of your surrounding and sharing your thoughts with God!

Buen Camino!
-Fr. Zack