Dear Parishioners,
Every week we receive calls from people who are requesting baptisms, weddings, convalidations, and those looking for sponsorship forms because they have been asked to be a sponsor for a baptism or confirmation. In all of these circumstances, the first question they are asked is, “Are you a registered parishioner?”
What it means to be an active registered parishioner at SH:
- An active registered parishioner is a person who attends Mass regularly at Sacred Heart Church. Parents who want a Catholic Faith Formation and Education for their children will see to it that their family attends Mass faithfully and participates in parish activities.
- An active registered parishioner gives of themselves by donating Time and Talent to the ministries of the parish and/or to the volunteer organizations that support the parish. We are to share in the responsibilities that keep our parish alive in a vibrant way through our ministries.
- An active registered parishioner is a good financial steward of the church. As a parishioner, it is important to understand that giving financially to support the parish is a vital and key component to active parishioner status.
We often hear people say “I’ve been coming here for years” or “this is my parish.” This is not the same as being a registered parishioner. We also hear “I or we only give cash”, so there is no record of identifiable giving. In these cases we are unable to assist in their needs. Registering at Sacred Heart Church offers numerous benefits, both practical and spiritual, for individuals and families. Here’s why a person should consider registering:
Sense of Belonging & Community:
- Becoming part of a family: Registration signifies your desire to be an active part of a specific Catholic faith community. It fosters a sense of belonging and helps you feel more “at home” in the church.
- Building relationships: It provides opportunities to connect with other parishioners, form friendships, and receive support during times of joy and sorrow.
- Demonstrating commitment: It’s a tangible way to declare your commitment to practicing your faith within a local church community, making a counter-cultural statement in a low-commitment society.
Facilitation of Sacraments & Ministries:
- Sacramental preparation: Many parishes require registration for individuals or families preparing for sacraments like Baptism, First Reconciliation, First Holy Communion, Confirmation, and Holy Matrimony.
- Prior to any wedding arrangements being made, a bride or groom must be a registered and active member in the parish for a minimum of one year and contributed to its support. The parish will not accept brides or grooms who register at the parish for the sole purpose of being married at Sacred Heart Church or for “using” the Church.
- Godparent/Sponsor validation: Being a registered, active member is often a requirement to receive a letter of eligibility to be a godparent for Baptism or a sponsor for Confirmation.
- Pastoral care: Registration helps the pastor and staff get to know you better, allowing them to minister to your spiritual needs, especially during times of crisis (e.g., Anointing of the Sick).
- Participation in parish life: It opens doors for involvement in various ministries, volunteer opportunities, and educational/formational programs offered by the parish.
Practical Benefits:
- Communication and updates: Providing your contact information allows the parish to keep you informed about events, prayer opportunities, and important updates via email direct mail, or phone.
- Financial statements: If you use offertory envelopes or online giving, registration ensures you receive a year-end statement of your donations for income tax purposes.
- Parish planning: Your registration contributes to the parish’s census numbers, which can influence decisions regarding the number of priests assigned, Mass schedules, and the planning of various programs and services.
- Proof of presence (especially for immigrants): For immigrants, registration can help document continuous presence in the U.S., which may be useful in immigration-related matters. It can also demonstrate good moral character and community involvement.
Spiritual Growth & Accountability:
- Deeper engagement: Registration can lead to more active participation in the life of the parish, helping you to grow in love of God and neighbor.
- Accountability: By formally joining, you allow the pastors and other members to shepherd you more effectively and hold you accountable in your faith journey.
- Stability: Registering at a single parish encourages stability in your faith life, allowing you to confront challenging teachings and grow within a consistent spiritual environment.
- In essence, registering at a Catholic parish is about intentionally becoming part of the Body of Christ in a local, tangible way, allowing you to both receive from and contribute to the vibrant life of the Church.
If you would like to be active in the life and ministry of Sacred Heart Church, you are very welcome to register here.
Peace and All Good,
– Fr. Mike
